Questions from readers

Q: How was your first love?(Ioana(17), Romania)
       A:Honey, the first time I fell in love I was 13 year and the boy that I like have the same age. We were good friends, I confessed my feelings, but he does not feel the same. We were not together, but we were still good friends. After a while I realized that at 13 you can not call it love that you feel for someone.

Q: Ever happened to you to know that your friends gossip you? What did you do?(Alice (14),Germany )
      A:Yes happened to me just a few months ago find out what my best friend gossips with some classmates. But I did not do anything about it, because my main motto is: "When you respond those who gossip, they will gossip more."

Q: When you were my age your parents gave you more freedom?(Mike(15), Romania)
      A: Mike, i don't have a lot of freedom at your age. My parents decided that the hours went i into the house. The truth is that by the age of 18 my parents were the ones that decide the program. I true that when my little brother wanted to stay longer they let him off because he is a boy.

Friendship, family, love or simple tears!

Hey, hey, hey my dear, back from the suburbs of capital city, where the ghetto and the made guys grow up together, and where life lessons are learned on the street if you're careful.

What I chose this topic today? Hmmm ... I do not know honestly.
I'll take in a certain order to bind we thought. As it's just normal :).
 Well, LOVE? What is LOVE ?
Love is no feeling that you only feel it for boyfriend or girlfriend, but for everyone around you, family, friends. But not all feel the love, some  sense common, others just an attachment and other obsession?
Take for example the relationship with boyfriends or girlfriends, I'm very curious, how many of you can guarantee with hand on heart that what he/she feels now is true love ? That love that will make them a better person, which makes them feel the thrill of the first kiss every time, which primarily involves friendship, understanding and mutual respect.
I bet very few people who would do thatand neither those are not the extreme sure.
Well it's love, but as I said not only feel love for your partner, but also for family and friends.
When it comes to family often wonder how we realize that what we feel is love. Well for those of family love is innate, it's there and no matter how hard you struggle to reject your sensation, he is existing, is always present. It is true that many times the attachment is often stronger than one parent than to the other but nobody can deny that exist for both. Like the. your sensation maternal (the right There exist people who do not have, or have not felt her again) when we are born the first thing you learn is to love.
Well the same feeling which until now has been explained in two different ways, now take another twist, love for friends, well, friendship is the same love, people you should become friends out of you which is more good, you should prove confidence and not get all the gossip from others. What often happens.
And reaching this subject are not those friends when they argued with you go and get all the gossip while you just watch, listen and supports everything that is created around you. Such behaviors make you understand often the people you have around are not what they seem and that friendship like love is not what you see in movies. And especially as a friend can often bring more tears  your face than can bring a boyfriend.
As I mentioned all the tears, the truth is that tears are made ​​of any small incident, the lowest word. Some are stronger than others and do not show, but that does not mean they do not exist. Even if we pretend it does not hurt tears their way and continue to flow.
Do you remember when you were a child and you fall down and crying while parents or older brothers will be clean and will kiss on the forehead. Back then there were only tears physical wounds we knew, but over time I met disappointment, strife, suffering, deception, even words and so were born or tears.
I thought everything was fine then.
I hope my translation is good and you understand what I mean.

Kiss,
The Blue Princess

Personality

Well, back in center of Bucharest :), or better said of its edges forgotten by the world :)) ... another monologue. Why the subject is personality?
Well because I noticed that a large part of Bucharest. all teenagers are deprived of its own personality most try to look what sunt.pentru not to form. But what actually looks not ever want to be well we've all been there :).

What say let's start with a definition: Personality: What its stand, characteristic of each person and distinguished as individuality, the definition insensitive of dictionary.
Let me tell you how it works and will not present all known definitions on all sites.

Personality is that someone on the inside that says: "That's not what you need", "Do not do that ...", "uuuuu what nice guy," or "What good is this ..." is what I always wanted to be, is our way of thinking. Personality is exhibited by: how to talk, clothing style (and I do not mean clean / dirty), but especially by customs, gossip, calm nerves, tears, lack of integration, fear, praise (not necessarily of self) and especially 'behavior. than others. these are the things that characterize us.
And again a small example:There is a person, a best friend who I believe has a wonderful personality, albeit with a few flaws, but the biggest flaw is that it always incearaca look. all else around it,although he wants to do fears are not excluded, is not simply marginalized.And have people around her that feels good sometimes and sometimes not. It is kind of person who always tries to find something good in everyone,but for the sake of friends listen and says nasty things they say some. Well that's not good. Do not be afraid to show your true personality, should not be afraid to show the world who you really are.
Learn to accept yourself and will accept everyone.


Kiss,
The Blue Princess

Confidence

Hallo from Bucharest suburbs.
Confidence, a simple word with so many problems.
We all trust someone, a friend, a neighbor, family,offer confidence in the beginning of each relationship  and to any person we have around us and we think it deserves trust.But after the first watershed moment our confidence is lost.
When we arguing with a person obtain disappointment,then we realize that our confidence disappears.
As two girls that I know were good friends, then suddenly there has been a arguing among them  an argument in which one of them felt so hurt that did not know what to do, she cried for hours and days at a time while the other blame her for fighting.Was completed then he realized that actually it's not her fault and even if she's less guilt, it's not all. Then he felt as her confidence in that person was quenched for while she sat quietly and say nothing bad about her ex-friend this a gossip at each person often right in front of her.
But she don't fought back continued to remain silent and does not care of what is being said around her.
As they quarreled and lost confidence, so many of us have lost confidence in the people around us.

PS:Please excuse my mistakes, I'm not very good at English. But I thought to do this blog, after I saw that most visitors of my blog in Romania are foreigners.

Kiss,
The Blue Princess